We’ve all gone through hard times. And we all get through them.
Some seem to get through them better than others. So what is their secret? Most of it has to do with attitude.
I love this quote “It is your resistance to ‘what is’ that causes your suffering.”
Think about that for a minute.
It means that our suffering only occurs when we resist how things are.
If you can change something, then take action! Change it!
But if you can’t change it, then you have two choices: either accept it and let go of the negativity, or make yourself miserable by obsessing over it.
It’s only a problem if you think it’s a problem. I have to constantly remind myself… if I want things to change *I* have to change. It’s a hard pill to swallow sometimes.
There is no such thing as failure—only learning opportunities right? Try to let go of desires and be present! If you don’t get what you want now.. it probably means something better is right around the corner.
Stay positive! STOP comparing your life to others. Use fear as your teacher and let the good times roll!!! ENJOY your freaking life! No victims… only warriors!